I think we often try to be too many things at once. Regarding the 30 under 30 list. Someone has to recommend you to the list and people often buy themselves in. So it's not really a true representation of the successful people under 30

UPDATE: Ok, so on Monday I had my class where we had to present the Powerpoint. So me and the other person get up to present. One of the guys did not even show up to class. The other two just sat there. So we start our presentation and everything went great. At the end the professor asked who participated. Me and the other person looked at each other and said "only us two". Now let me tell you the guys did not look happy about this

Yeah, for the final Powerpoint if a person does not take part they will get marked individually

Thank you so much xxx

Well done

I think the fear of turning a year older is so normal. I am turning 22 this year and my dad loved to remind me that he was already married to my mum at that age. Whereas I have never had a proper relationship.

First, I am so sorry that this happened to you. Secondly, you dodged a bullet let me tell you that. This man is not ready for commitment at all. You deserve someone who knows what they want from a relationship and not someone that leads you on because they are not sure. Sending all my love and positive energy your way xxx

I agree. Hopefully I will pass my test this time round. I think it is just the stress of being an inconvenience to other drivers that get me. I absolutely hated my driving lessons and driving instructor

As strange as it sounds I never wanted to come back home because I knew that I would have to say goodbye. It was easier to stay at University because I knew how to deal with missing my family but not the goodbyes

The solo-coffee date is the best. I do them all the time and I love it. It is so important to be able to spend time by yourself sometimes

Sitting down in the middle of nowhere and just thinking can be the best thing in the world sometimes

This is the type of guy that you hold on to. I am so happy that you found someone that brings you so much happiness x

Back in my second year at university, I went through a phase where I went to the gym for 2 hours, 6 times a week and ate around 1200 cal per day. I was losing weight and thought 'OMG I am finally healthy'. However, I was the furthest thing from healthy. My grades were going down, I was feeling blue all the time, I was obsessed with what I was eating, and I was tired all the time. Looking back now I see that rather than making my body stronger and eating the right things. I was slowly ruining it

I am always looking for a new podcast to listen to and I am totally going to check this out

I read something along these lines in a book by Grace Beverley. She wrote about how sometimes we avoid tasks and use 'self-care' as an 'excuses' not to do it. Learning when we really need self-care and using self-care as an excuse not to do something is a process which can take a long time to master

I can relate to this so much. I hate doing things that will show results right away because I want that feeling of satisfaction right away. But it is always short lived and I am on to the next thing. I am so happy that you found something that makes you happy xxx

The idea of bringing anyone back home now is traumatising 😂. At this point I keep a small stash of snacks in my room to avoid the issue of going downstairs

I can completely relate to this. I think the biggest change for me was not seeing my friends everyday and not having as much freedom as before. It kind of felt like my whole life got turned upside down